Monday, August 16, 2010

Widowed?

Everyone is wondering, no Smith is not dead. He is here. We have just amicably decided to go our own ways. For the next year we will be separating all the things that it has taken 13 years to put together.
I will NOT be coming on the trip on the 21st. Smith is either coming with his Dad or alone. I will miss meeting everyone and seeing my friends but I have to tend to things here.
Smith will take over CSRW and I will take Carolina Cockers which has been my baby from day one.
On the flip side congrats are in order for my adoption of Folly. A toy fox terrier/jack russell mix. I swear I blame this all on Cheepers, Caspian, Trump. Truffles and Lana!
Sorry I will miss everyone but truly I need to be here.
Once Maggie is finished with high school I will proceed with moving home, Smith will go his own direction and he can always use CSRW as long as he chooses to rescue. Great cudos to him for becoming a rescuer in his own account.
I personally will not be rescuing, I will be gathering together and regrouping my own life. For the next year I will be responsible for all cockers, my personal dogs and Walt and Disney. I will need to find places for all of our rescues and Walt and Disney. Any ideas?

5 comments:

  1. Differences in life plans. We simply do not have the same goals, daily attitudes, or anything else in common any longer. Just an example, I can no longer listen to music at all when I am in his presence. He doesn't like my music and I don't like his. He doesn't like music at all when we travel, I need music in my life a great deal. Temper issues, stress issues and so on. Just a huge culmination of problems. Don't be worried please, this has been on the way for a long time, we understand it and are truly friends and will work this out amicably.

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  2. XXOO

    FYI, I posted before you had finished your posting and all it said was WIDOWED..scared me.

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  3. I'm very sorry to hear this. I am 'happy' though that you can remain friends and work it all out amicably.
    Please know that whatever path you both take, you will always have a friend in me.
    Thank you for all you've done for the animals. They are all very lucky.Their lives would have been so much different if you hadn't come along. I am very lucky to have gotten to know you both.

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  4. Kerry and Smith,
    I hear of this happening more and more. I am happy for each of you individually. Keep your friendship alive, this will soften the adjustment for your children. Smith,I wish you the best with your new full time endeavor. Kerry, may you be nothing short of happy, content and satisfied as you find your way on this new path. Best of luck to you both and I hope you find peace and happiness in your new lives. Embrace this new plateau!! Sue and Miss Magic

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